Mindful Monday | Learning You is to Love You

Learning You is to Love You

The more you take the time to know You, the more you will come into the understanding or your Real Truth and how to live with Power.

Hello beautiful one.

So I’m making this video for you today because it’s Mindful Monday. A little while ago I just finished doing a zoom call with our beautiful Eunice. And it comes to mind in preparation for what I’m about to share is that we don’t know what we don’t know until we know it, right? So I want to share something that you may not know.

And that is that exactly where you are is where you’re supposed to be. Evidence that you’re there and that everything that’s ever happened in your life, every experience, every seemingly great thing and not so great thing is for your learning. And you have the unique perspective of doing what no one can do for you, which is to reframe and learn from every experience.

So what does that look like? Well, before I was married to a man that prays over me every day, that cherishes me and constantly communicates through his thoughts, deeds, and actions, the value he has for me, I was in a relationship that was violent and a man spoke to me harshly and berated just about everything I did, everything I thought, everything about me. Now that could be something that I hold on to as horrible. But what did I say? We have the unique experience to reframe.

So now when I look back on that, and before I say that, how many of us have had an experience that we wish didn’t happen or that we hold shame about, or that we regret? Almost everyone, right? So we get to reframe that.

 So now when I think about that experience, I think, wow, that really helped me understand how I was not valuing myself. That really gave me the strength to declare I’m going to make self-honoring choices that put me in the position of being the person that I choose to be, to love myself the way I want to be loved and maybe one day I’d have a partner that would love me the same way.

So my reframe, inward first, gave me the out-picturing of the life I now have. And it’s not just for me, it’s for you too.

So today, tomorrow and every day, remember you have the unique gift to reframe anything, to allow it to serve you for your learning and so that you get to know you better. Okay?

At this moment, I am feeling so much adoration for you for saying yes to yourself, for choosing to learn your real truth and live with power.

Grab the kiss, put it in your heart and keep it there. Bye for now.